Posted by: Sarah on: September 19, 2009
There is an alarming trend when it comes to teens and oral sex. It seems to be happening at younger and younger ages and in more and more scary/creative places, like school buses and school bathrooms. Teens seem to flock to oral sex as an alternative to “real” sex that allows them to keep their [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: September 10, 2009
For teen girls there is an age old question: Does having sex mean love? Teen girls are searching for love, and many feel that having sex will lead to a “closer” relationship with their partner, and to “love”. I just wonder about the chicken, and egg logistics of this deal. Does it make sense to [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: August 20, 2009
I get a lot of questions from teen girls about dating, and why the guy that was so into them yesterday runs today . I also get a lot of questions from the parents of teen girls who are concerned about the hours they spend on the phone, the computer, and the cell phone talking [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: August 11, 2009
It is scary to let your teen out of the house for a date, especially when you don’t know the person they are going out with. I think it is always a good idea to get some data on the person your teen will be going out with before the date. This does not mean [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: July 30, 2009
I often hear teen girls say that when they wear clothes that are revealing they are not looking for attention from boys. They say it is just how they like to dress. They claim to be shocked when they are ogled by the opposite sex, especially when it is a member of the opposite sex [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: July 17, 2009
We spend a lot of time trying to terrify teens into not having sex. We talk about how diseases will kill them, and how the emotional piece is scary as well. Do we ever tell them that there are positives to sex? OK, so maybe that seems like a terrible idea…yea.. it does seem like [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: July 11, 2009
As a parent I really hope that my kids will feel comfortable talking to me about everything, including sex. In reality I realize it might be a long shot when it comes to sex. Teens know that their parents want them to wait for sex. They want their parents to be proud of them at [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: June 24, 2009
Lately I have gotten a ton of questions from teen girls regarding dating, and sex. Most of the questions have centered on the topic of sex before dating. In other words, the guys want to have sex before even saying that they are “going out”. The girls are worried that if they do not sleep [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: June 9, 2009
I received a question from a parent about teen girls and dating. The parent wanted to know if her daughter should “take a break” from dating in order to focus on school etc. She said that her teen daughter was constantly switching from one boyfriend to the next at break neck speed. I had to [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: May 19, 2009
It seems that texting is here to stay. I have decided that if you can’t beat ‘em join ‘em is the only way to go when it comes to texting. I tried to resist! Parents were always asking me if I thought it was OK for their teen to be texting. I finally decided I [...]