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Internet Dating: Love and War

Posted by: Sarah on: January 4, 2012

As many people start out 2012 newly or still single the top question becomes…where are all the elgible, datable, and not totally (pardon the expression) “barfy” people?  The internet is becoming ever more popular as an alternative to bars etc. for finding single people to date, but how to sort through the potential, shall we [...]

Hard to Get: Playing hard to get is still the way to go

Posted by: Sarah on: October 4, 2011

As crazy as it seems playing “hard to get” still works.  This does not mean endless games, but it does mean taking a deep breath, and having more patience than most of us possess.  Wait for the other person to make a move if you have at least laid down some hints.  There is something [...]

Relationships: Is this person “the one”?

Posted by: Sarah on: September 21, 2011

How do you know you have the “right one”?  The person who will lead to happiness.  This is a hard question on a lot of levels, and some of the most important things to consider are: Can you see your future without them? Are you committed to the relationship through thick and thin? Do you [...]

Women and Sex: How your self-image impacts sexuality

Posted by: Sarah on: July 11, 2011

We all know that the way we view ourselves has an impact on how we feel.  If we don’t feel good about our outside it can be hard to feel good about our inside.  How does this impact sex?  It might seem obvious that feeling less than attractive on the outside can lead many women [...]

Emotionally Safe Sex

Posted by: Sarah on: January 12, 2011

Is it possible to have emotionally safe sex?  The short answer is, it might be.  The reason sex is often so dangerous in the emotions department is because the two people engaging in the act are often not on the same page. (Example: it is a first or second date and  ”Jane” really likes “Dick”, [...]

Sex Before Dating

Posted by: Sarah on: January 10, 2011

This week three different women have spoken to me about a difficulty in the dating world.  What is to blame?  Sex before dating.  By this I mean Boy Meets Girl…Boy and Girl go on date…boy and girl hit it off and have a great time…boy and girl go back to one of their places and [...]

Internet Dating: The Next Frontier

Posted by: Sarah on: December 16, 2010

Ok, so the whole world has been reduced to a computer screen or wireless device…crazy right?  What happened to boy meets girl…girl likes boy…girl give him her phone number (actual talking…not texting…how archaic!), they go on a date, they start “dating”, etc. etc…. Technology is great don’t get me wrong, and still somewhere along the [...]

Dating Non Stop: Do you need to stop to find you?

Posted by: Sarah on: April 30, 2010

OK, so a lot of people I know struggle with the question of should they date someone or take time to “get to know” who they really are bla bla bla.  This is all very noble accept for the fact that most human beings hate to be alone.  We are just not set up, most [...]

I get a lot of questions about sex from teens who are debating having sex for the first time.  The age old conundrums still exists.  Girls want their first time to be special, and boys tend to see it more as  a right of passage.  Deciding when to have sex is a very personal decision, [...]

Teens and Anal Sex: the new virginity

Posted by: Sarah on: September 22, 2009

OK, so apparently I got a lot of peoples attention with my last blog about oral sex.  The stats were off the charts.  I figured I would throw another controversial one at you.  I got a question this week about anal sex and whether you are still a virgin if you have anal sex.  Apparently [...]


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