Comments for Ask Sarah Hile http://asksarahhile.com AskSarahHile.com Thu, 24 Sep 2009 13:42:16 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Teens and Anal Sex: the new virginity by Joe Jimbo http://asksarahhile.com/2009/09/22/teens-and-anal-sex-the-new-virginity/#comment-99 Joe Jimbo Thu, 24 Sep 2009 13:42:16 +0000 http://asksarahhile.com/?p=345#comment-99 Your Blogs are getting really in depth. Your Blogs are getting really in depth.

]]> Comment on Teens, Sex, and Meeting Basic Needs by Mathew Edvik (Teen Esteem Council) http://asksarahhile.com/2009/08/28/teens-sex-and-meeting-basic-needs/#comment-80 Mathew Edvik (Teen Esteem Council) Sun, 30 Aug 2009 03:58:07 +0000 http://asksarahhile.com/?p=312#comment-80 I have had many conversations with teen girls about this subject. Most girls admit that while they are 'in the moment' with someone, they feeling loved and needed. However, afterward they fill empty. Even though they understand this happens, then need for the attention and the affection are so powerful that they get caught in a cycle of having sex to meet the needs of getting attention, but then feeling empty afterward. Then they have sex again because they know that they will feel needed, even if it is just for a little while. I love that you suggested helping teens figure out what is driving that behavior. I have had many conversations with teen girls about this subject. Most girls admit that while they are ‘in the moment’ with someone, they feeling loved and needed. However, afterward they fill empty. Even though they understand this happens, then need for the attention and the affection are so powerful that they get caught in a cycle of having sex to meet the needs of getting attention, but then feeling empty afterward. Then they have sex again because they know that they will feel needed, even if it is just for a little while. I love that you suggested helping teens figure out what is driving that behavior.

]]> Comment on Teens and Sex: Fast food nation…does it apply to sex too? by Mathew Edvik (Teen Esteem Council) http://asksarahhile.com/2009/08/21/teens-and-sex-fast-food-nation-does-it-apply-to-sex-too/#comment-79 Mathew Edvik (Teen Esteem Council) Tue, 25 Aug 2009 15:40:46 +0000 http://asksarahhile.com/?p=305#comment-79 Sarah, This is a great post. I love the point that you make about self-control leading to all kinds of good things. There is so much in the media about having sex, almost as an afterthought. However the physical, emotional, and spiritual consequences are rarely if ever shown. Just as in fast food commercials. The advertisers would never show the clogged arteries and extra pounds you put on by eating what they advertise. Those promoting an easy sexual lifestyle don't talk about the negative emotional consequences of sex. Especially for teen girls. Sarah, This is a great post. I love the point that you make about self-control leading to all kinds of good things. There is so much in the media about having sex, almost as an afterthought. However the physical, emotional, and spiritual consequences are rarely if ever shown. Just as in fast food commercials. The advertisers would never show the clogged arteries and extra pounds you put on by eating what they advertise. Those promoting an easy sexual lifestyle don’t talk about the negative emotional consequences of sex. Especially for teen girls.

]]> Comment on Teens, Sex, and Texting by Laura Hedgecock http://asksarahhile.com/2009/05/19/teens-dating-and-texting/#comment-78 Laura Hedgecock Fri, 21 Aug 2009 18:57:32 +0000 http://asksarahhile.com/?p=222#comment-78 u go u go

]]> Comment on Teens and Sex: Fast food nation…does it apply to sex too? by Laura Hedgecock http://asksarahhile.com/2009/08/21/teens-and-sex-fast-food-nation-does-it-apply-to-sex-too/#comment-77 Laura Hedgecock Fri, 21 Aug 2009 18:56:29 +0000 http://asksarahhile.com/?p=305#comment-77 I think we should tell them that fast sex makes you fat -- just like fast food. I think we should tell them that fast sex makes you fat — just like fast food.

]]> Comment on Teen Girls, Sex, and Dating: Playing Hard to Get Might Not Be Outdated After All by mrlocario http://asksarahhile.com/2009/08/20/teen-girls-sex-and-dating-playing-hard-to-get-might-not-be-outdated-after-all/#comment-76 mrlocario Thu, 20 Aug 2009 22:45:34 +0000 http://asksarahhile.com/?p=298#comment-76 but why does the "best" mean you have to wait? what happened to love at first sight or just living your life and doing what you want to do? why is it disrespectful to want to have sex right away? but it okay to use a microwave or eat fast food or purchase faster broadband. i do respect your opinion, but in mine i don't try to automatically assume that waiting to have sex will give the best result. i mean a guy waiting on a girl to have sex doesn't necessarily mean he respects her, generally it just means he has patience and tolerance. please read my article on this very topic. my article is a little bit more adult but it think exposing the truth early on is best for everyone. the article is here: http://mrlocario.wordpress.com/2009/07/23/mr-locarios-sex-dating-and-relationship-advice-so-what-do-you-do-if-a-girl-wants-to-make-you-wait-to-have-sex-with-her/ for more truth about dating and relationships: www.mrlocario.com but why does the “best” mean you have to wait? what happened to love at first sight or just living your life and doing what you want to do? why is it disrespectful to want to have sex right away? but it okay to use a microwave or eat fast food or purchase faster broadband. i do respect your opinion, but in mine i don’t try to automatically assume that waiting to have sex will give the best result. i mean a guy waiting on a girl to have sex doesn’t necessarily mean he respects her, generally it just means he has patience and tolerance. please read my article on this very topic. my article is a little bit more adult but it think exposing the truth early on is best for everyone.

the article is here:
http://mrlocario.wordpress.com/2009/07/23/mr-locarios-sex-dating-and-relationship-advice-so-what-do-you-do-if-a-girl-wants-to-make-you-wait-to-have-sex-with-her/

for more truth about dating and relationships: http://www.mrlocario.com

]]> Comment on Teens and Drinking: Start Early for the Biggest Impact by Mat Edvik http://asksarahhile.com/2009/08/14/teens-and-drinking-start-early-for-the-biggest-impact/#comment-75 Mat Edvik Sat, 15 Aug 2009 19:21:35 +0000 http://asksarahhile.com/?p=291#comment-75 The media is very good at showing the 'upside' to drinking, drug use, and sex without showing the consequences. I agree that it is essential to start communicating with your kids early in life. I think it is important for parents to talk to children early about what they values as parents. For younger children that aren't ready for the more mature facts, the parents can instill their values and then when it is time for the hard talks, they can discuss how destructive behaviors go against what the family values are. Great Blog Post! The media is very good at showing the ‘upside’ to drinking, drug use, and sex without showing the consequences. I agree that it is essential to start communicating with your kids early in life. I think it is important for parents to talk to children early about what they values as parents.
For younger children that aren’t ready for the more mature facts, the parents can instill their values and then when it is time for the hard talks, they can discuss how destructive behaviors go against what the family values are.
Great Blog Post!

]]> Comment on Questions? by Kelly Brown http://asksarahhile.com/questions/#comment-73 Kelly Brown Fri, 12 Jun 2009 23:38:30 +0000 http://asksarahhile.com/?page_id=157#comment-73 Hi, interest post. I'll write you later about few questions! Hi, interest post. I’ll write you later about few questions!

]]> Comment on Sex and Sexuality: Conversation Starters for Parents by Marvin http://asksarahhile.com/2009/04/17/sex-and-sexuality-conversation-starters-for-parents/#comment-33 Marvin Fri, 01 May 2009 11:25:57 +0000 http://asksarahhile.com/?p=197#comment-33 This was really interesting and taught me one things or two. This was really interesting and taught me one things or two.

]]> Comment on Erections and How Early to Talk to Your Boys About Them by Sarah http://asksarahhile.com/2009/02/23/erections-and-how-early-to-talk-to-your-boys-about-them/#comment-25 Sarah Wed, 22 Apr 2009 17:56:34 +0000 http://asksarahhile.com/?p=77#comment-25 Liza, I choose what to write based on questions I receive from the web site and from clients. Thank you for your comment! Liza, I choose what to write based on questions I receive from the web site and from clients. Thank you for your comment!

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