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Comment on Internet Dating: Love and War by kris

kris — Thu, 15 Mar 2012 00:05:30 +0000

The pay websites are better than the free ones, obvi you will be speaking to peeps that are more serious. Match worked for me and eharmony has worked for friends. Clearly you still need to be smart about who/how you meet up with peeps. HOLLA!!!

Comment on Erections and How Early to Talk to Your Boys About Them by starflower1965

starflower1965 — Sun, 26 Feb 2012 17:27:55 +0000

This post is old, so the author may never read my response, but he is WRONG that a boys first ejaculate will contain blood. It should NOT contain blood and if it does, this is a medical issue that needs to be addressed by a trained physician.

Comment on Teen Girls and Body Image: How we are losing the war by Isabella Porter

Isabella Porter — Wed, 02 Nov 2011 16:24:28 +0000

the pressure to be perfect in highschool is ridiculousy high no one has any self image because of the media or what soceity thinks is right well to all the girls out there struggling i am right there with you every step of the way. kind of like the no one left behind thing. it only takes one person to change someones life and if we bond together and help each other to not trash talk our bodies then no one can stop us from changing the world.

Comment on Teen Girls and Body Image: How we are losing the war by Sarah

Sarah — Tue, 20 Sep 2011 18:04:26 +0000

You are beautiful just the way you already are! I am so glad you are getting back your self esteem. Leave the mirrors alone and look inside instead )

Comment on Teen Girls and Body Image: How we are losing the war by youhadmeathelloxp

youhadmeathelloxp — Tue, 20 Sep 2011 03:34:56 +0000

I am 15, and i suffer trying to be just like society says i should be. Perfectly skinny, no zits or blemishes, perfect hair, perfect teeth… but i will never be perfect. and though it took me a long time to realize that, i know that now. But it still hurts knowing that my self confidence has pretty much vanished over the years. Thank you for posting this, it made my day and made me smile:)

Comment on Life Coaching by Sarah

Sarah — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 21:27:11 +0000

No, was there someone with the same name?

Comment on Life Coaching by nancy

nancy — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 20:34:17 +0000

Hi sarah
are you the speaker who was on CBC radio today?

Comment on Erections and How Early to Talk to Your Boys About Them by Sarah

Sarah — Mon, 10 Jan 2011 23:13:45 +0000

Holly, Thank you for your question. It is important to validate your son’s feelings. Let him know that it is normal to get erections, and that it is there is a time and a place for exploration. (See my blog on children and masterbation for more details on that subject.) It seems a little early for your son to make the connection between arousal and seeing women on TV, and yet everyone develops at their own pace. Ask him if he has any questions for you, and be willing to answer them in words he can understand. If you don’t have an answer right away let him know it is a great questions, and that you will find out and tell him when you do. You might also want to make sure that he has not found any age innapropriate materials that might be confusing him. Best of luck in your discussions with your child and he is luck to have parents who look for information to help him!

Comment on Erections and How Early to Talk to Your Boys About Them by Holly

Holly — Fri, 07 Jan 2011 21:23:54 +0000

My son will be 5 at the end of this month. He has come to daddy and I many times to let us know that his “penis is hard.” We tell him its ok, normal, it will go away, just leave it alone, very calmly. Well last night while we were all in bed, he came into my bedroom and said to me, “Mommy, my penis is hard again and it wont go away”, I told him what i usually tell him but he said something totaly different this time. “Mommy, when i see girls on tv, i get hard!” Now its the next day and i am clueless on what to say to him. PLease help!

Comment on Teens and Anal Sex: the new virginity by Joe Jimbo

Joe Jimbo — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 13:42:16 +0000

Your Blogs are getting really in depth.