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Sexting and Teens: you write it, it’s yours

Posted by: Sarah on: September 30, 2009

For some reason the teens I know keep writing things on impulse!  Oh wait, that’s how the teen brain operates.  We are in a scary new world of written communication.  There are texts, and face book messages, and tweets, and all of them are out there for lots of people to see. Unfortunately teens do [...]

Teens and Anal Sex: the new virginity

Posted by: Sarah on: September 22, 2009

OK, so apparently I got a lot of peoples attention with my last blog about oral sex.  The stats were off the charts.  I figured I would throw another controversial one at you.  I got a question this week about anal sex and whether you are still a virgin if you have anal sex.  Apparently [...]

Teens and Oral Sex: not just for movie theatres anymore

Posted by: Sarah on: September 19, 2009

There is an alarming trend when it comes to teens and oral sex.  It seems to be happening at younger and younger ages and in more and more scary/creative places, like school buses and school bathrooms.  Teens seem to flock to oral sex as an alternative to “real” sex that allows them to keep their [...]

Teen Girls and Sex: Does Sex Equal Love?

Posted by: Sarah on: September 10, 2009

For teen girls there is an age old question: Does having sex mean love?  Teen girls are searching for love, and many feel that having sex will lead to a “closer” relationship with their partner, and to “love”.  I just wonder about the chicken, and egg logistics of this deal.  Does it make sense to [...]

Teen Girls and Friendship: Be All You Can Be

Posted by: Sarah on: September 3, 2009

Friendships are massively important for teen girls. The connections friends provide are vital to how they feel about themselves.  Friendships mean a social connection, and a place to turn for support.  They also mean a set of standards, whether good or bad, that teens try to live up to.  The moral of the story is [...]

Teen Girls, Sex, and Building a Positive Image from Within

Posted by: Sarah on: September 2, 2009

We all have a view of ourselves that we carry inside.  We feel a certain way about the way we look, the way our personality is, the way we relate to others etc.  For teens this feeling is still in the development phase.  For all of us it changes as we progress through life.  Teen [...]

Teens, Sex, and Meeting Basic Needs

Posted by: Sarah on: August 28, 2009

When we human beings do anything, we are doing it to meet a need.  There are a few needs that we all have: food, water, shelter, clothes…but there are a lot of other needs that are very strong as well.  The need for power, control, love and belonging etc. are very close seconds to our [...]

Sex and Body Image: Teen Girls, Fighting the Image Within

Posted by: Sarah on: August 27, 2009

Teen girls (mostly) hate the way they look.  This seems like a crazy statement to me.  Sadly though, teen girls with negative body image issues seem to have reached epidemic proportions.  It seems as though 9 out of 10 teen girls do not like their face, their body, and/or multiple features about themselves. They look [...]

OK, so I got a comment on a recent blog saying that we eat fast food, we microwave things for convenience, we buy faster broadband connections, shouldn’t we be able to have sex with people the same way (right away) ….Hmmm…I guess the answer depends on what kind of depth you want to experience in [...]

I get a lot of questions from teen girls about dating, and why the guy that was so into them yesterday runs today .  I also get a lot of questions from the parents of teen girls who are concerned about the hours they spend on the phone, the computer, and the cell phone talking [...]


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