Posted by: Sarah on: January 4, 2012
As many people start out 2012 newly or still single the top question becomes…where are all the elgible, datable, and not totally (pardon the expression) “barfy” people? The internet is becoming ever more popular as an alternative to bars etc. for finding single people to date, but how to sort through the potential, shall we [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: October 4, 2011
As crazy as it seems playing “hard to get” still works. This does not mean endless games, but it does mean taking a deep breath, and having more patience than most of us possess. Wait for the other person to make a move if you have at least laid down some hints. There is something [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: September 21, 2011
How do you know you have the “right one”? The person who will lead to happiness. This is a hard question on a lot of levels, and some of the most important things to consider are: Can you see your future without them? Are you committed to the relationship through thick and thin? Do you [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: September 20, 2011
Were did we go wrong? Is it the magazines with super skinny models? The TV shows full of people who must not eat? The air-brushed bill-boards? When did we as a society make all the teenage girls, and women for that matter, feel so bad about the way their bodies were created that they want [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: July 11, 2011
We all know that the way we view ourselves has an impact on how we feel. If we don’t feel good about our outside it can be hard to feel good about our inside. How does this impact sex? It might seem obvious that feeling less than attractive on the outside can lead many women [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: January 10, 2011
This week three different women have spoken to me about a difficulty in the dating world. What is to blame? Sex before dating. By this I mean Boy Meets Girl…Boy and Girl go on date…boy and girl hit it off and have a great time…boy and girl go back to one of their places and [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: April 30, 2010
OK, so a lot of people I know struggle with the question of should they date someone or take time to “get to know” who they really are bla bla bla. This is all very noble accept for the fact that most human beings hate to be alone. We are just not set up, most [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: September 10, 2009
For teen girls there is an age old question: Does having sex mean love? Teen girls are searching for love, and many feel that having sex will lead to a “closer” relationship with their partner, and to “love”. I just wonder about the chicken, and egg logistics of this deal. Does it make sense to [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: August 21, 2009
OK, so I got a comment on a recent blog saying that we eat fast food, we microwave things for convenience, we buy faster broadband connections, shouldn’t we be able to have sex with people the same way (right away) ….Hmmm…I guess the answer depends on what kind of depth you want to experience in [...]
Posted by: Sarah on: June 30, 2009
I often get questions from people about relationship communication and resolving fights. One things that comes up over and over is the fact that different people have different ways they prefer to deal with conflict. Usually the styles fall into one of two categories: keep going till the fight is resolved or disengage and take [...]